| If we go to a party, how can I make sure my partner enjoys it and wants to do it again? |
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Do not attend unless this is something you have talked about, and something you both want to do. If we see that someone has been brought to the party under false pretences, we will ask you both to leave. Make sure you are both happy when you leave the party. That means defining your limits before you leave home, and then sticking to these rules at the party. Trust in this new environment is a must. Let your partner learn to trust you as your true partner and then as a swinging partner. |



